Love Relationship Advice
>> Tuesday, April 20, 2010
When your boyfriend tells you he wants to take a break from the relationship, what should you do? You are still in love with him and do not want to lose him. If you try to keep him by crying and begging, he will probably just reject you again. On the other hand if you try to forget him and move on, you will lose him and the future you had hoped to have with him.
Fortunately these are not the only choices you have. If you still love him and want your ex boyfriend back, take these important steps quick. The first step is to not let your heart think for your head. Your ex boyfriend is all prepared for you to try to get him back and he has built a brick wall around his emotions. He does not want to allow you to make him feel guilty for breaking up with you.
Get Him to Love You Forever
So he is determined not to have any communication with you. He will ignore any phone calls, emails or text messages from you. There is no use for you to lose your pride and dignity by crying and begging because right now he will not listen. Stop and think, why would he feel any different in a few days after the breakup than he did then? Only time, patience and some smart action will get your ex boyfriend back.
By respecting his wishes and giving him the space he asked for, you will gain his gratitude and respect. Your next important step is to Appear to be accepting the breakup and moving on with your life. It would be best if you could take a mini - vacation. If not visit out of town relatives and friends. The main thing is to get away from easy access to your ex boyfriend and get your emotions in check.
How to Get Over Someone You Love Deeply
You will begin to relax and think more clearly. Knowing that there are people that sincerely care about you will help lift your spirits and self confidence. When you get back home get with your girlfriends and have some fun. Your ex boyfriend will have noticed that you had disappeared for awhile and this aroused his curiosity.Now when he sees you out having a good time and acting as if he does not exist, he will feel left out.
The good times you had together will start coming back to him and he will begin to miss you. Soon he will doubt his decision to breakup with you. The urge to contact you will hit him. You have had a chance to experience your life without him and found your inner strength. This puts you in a better position than at the time of the breakup. You have seen that you should never let him control your life again.
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